Going Purple ... With Pride

Epilepsy aka the seizure monsters have played a big role in our family's life. For a very long time.

I've written a little bit about our family's experience with epilepsy here. And here. And here. And most recently here.

The Blue Jay had her first seizure when she was 13 months old and she was diagnosed with a "seizure disorder" when she was 2 years old. Despite the doctor passing me a pamphlet from our provincial epilepsy association when he gave us this diagnosis, it was quite a long time before I actually put two and two together. And realized that "seizure disorder" was just another way of saying epilepsy.

It's amazing how huge language is. How it can so easily hurt. Come with so many stigmas attached. Can be used to build someone up . Or tear then down. Sometimes without the speaker even realizing it.

And so it is with the word epilepsy. There's a certain stigma attached. Although it doesn't carry as much baggage as the words "mentally retarded", for some people there's still a certain sting to it. And if you doubt that, try the word "epileptic" on for size and see if you feel any differently. Think of it applied to your son or your daughter. Or yourself.

And so it was understandable that 9 year old Cassidy Megan didn't want to tell her classmates that she took seizures. That she had epilepsy. She was afraid they would make fun of her. Can you blame her?

And yet time and again we have seen that from many dark moments, a light can spring. And so it was when members from the Nova Scotia Epilepsy Association came to Cassidy's classroom and did a presentation. It empowered Cassidy to speak up for the first time in front of her classmates and *admit* (yes, admit) that she had epilepsy. And that by itself, were that the end of the story, would have been admirable.

But Cassidy went beyond that. She realized that people needed to learn more about epilepsy, "especially that all seizures are not the same and that people with epilepsy are ordinary people just like everyone else". She also wanted kids with epilepsy "to know that they are not alone". And with this realization, Cassidy became a spokesperson for epilepsy.

She went to the principal of her elementary school and asked if they could create and celebrate Purple Day ~ a day when everyone would wear purple to increase awareness about epilepsy. With the help of her mom, Cassidy began contacting politicians, celebrities, non-profits and corporations, asking them all to spread the word about Purple Day and epilepsy. And with that, Purple Day was born.

From students in classrooms around the world to Paul Shaffer on the Late Show with David Letterman, people wore purple to spread the word about epilepsy on March 26, 2008. Cassidy was interviewed by news outlets across Canada and was even featured in a South African epilepsy newsletter.

I am sad to say that I was totally unaware of Purple Day last year. My loss, I'm afraid. But this year, I am proud, along with my husband and my children, to be a vocal supporter of Purple Day.

Come Thursday, we will be proudly wearing purple, along with (hopefully) most of the combined approximately 700 students at a local elementary and middle school. That's hoping the Kit Kat and I are successful in our brief presentations on Wednesday to explain to the students why Purple Day is so important. And, equally, why it is so cool. And I found out today that I just may be lucky enough to spread the word on one of local radio stations, too!

After all, how can you fail to be be awed by a story that starts with a 9 year old Nova Scotian girl and ends with purple tea parties and pizza parties, purple cocktail parties and fundraising events, purple art shows and pool competitions, a Calgary City Hall Purple Day Proclamation Celebration and a purple-lit CN Tower and Niagara Falls?

On the internet, people like to talk about videos or posts going viral. Might I suggest that thanks to Cassidy and, this year with the help of the Anita Kauffman Foundation, Purple Day has indeed gone viral.

Congratulations, Cassidy. You truly inspire us all. If there was ever a person to prove that one child person really can make a difference, it is you.

And on behalf of the Blue Jay and our family, the 300,000 Canadians and 2.5 million Americans and countless others around the world who live with epilepsy each and every single day, a very heartfelt thank you.

I wonder how many people are aware that epilepsy affects more than twice as many Canadians as those who live with cerebral palsy, muscular dystrophy, multiple sclerosis and cystic fibrosis combined or that one in 100 people has epilepsy? I wonder how many people are aware of many epilepsy issues?

Well, thanks to Cassidy Megan, I am sure the answer is many more now.